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General DiscussionDoes your GF/BF/Husband/Wife knows youre playing doto?

Does your GF/BF/Husband/Wife knows youre playing doto? in General Discussion
Bad Intentions

    If yes, what is their opinion? if no, would u tell em? Thoughts?

    Livin' Real Good

      Yes she knows, but she doesn't really care, lots of times i tell her that i just won a close game! But she probably just does the girlfriend thing, and says " wow, i'm happy for you !:) " just cause she's expected to care about what i have to say, but doubt she cares, it's just one of my hobbies to her.

      cy ka 619

        is this the thread where we pretend to have social lifes ?

        Crudude

          BIG ISSUE IN MY LIFE

          I get a lot of flak for playing too much DOTA from my girlfriend xD

          ^And same what yorkey said, she will politely listen to a rant/boast about a game and comment but not really be interested

          Mokujin

            Girlfriend knows I play and doesnt really care or mind.
            I wonder what her reaction would be if i said 'i cant talk because im playing dota' when she calls me, i'd imagine she wouldn't get too pissed lol

            Mokujin

              It shouldnt be an issue if you balance your time

              Crudude

                ^That's my problem

                I will go through a period of like 3 days where I play DOTA non stop and don't talk to her much --> And this upsets her
                So yeah it is time balancing but if I'm in a DOTA mood I can't help pressing "find match" for my 6th game of the day...

                But if I'm in game she understands If I can't talk or something, I don't think that ever bothers her

                @OP: Why would you hide the fact you play DOTA from your partner? ;o

                Funkyfredz

                  ^^ same as Crudude. My gf randomly rants about too much dota when she is bored, but doesn't really care

                  daci

                    well my GF understands that i like to play, and she dont mind, even if she calls and i say im in game she is not upset. she thinks that its beter than drinking in bars :), but my parents disaprove. they say i spend to much time for games and that im to old for this shit (26). but i like to play, so why wouldnt i... i finished school, i have job, social life i help around the house so why would someone forbid me to play. some friends just smile when i say that i still play dota, but evryone has his own thing right?

                    Filthy

                      When I was first dating she would do the girl friend listening thing, but we have been together 10 years now so if I tell her about a game she would tell me to be quiet and that no one cares lol.

                      Filthy

                        Btw I am 26 also in military with son and wife so it's still possible to play even with busy schedule if u balance things .

                        Andy

                          ^that's actually quite impressive time managemant

                          Filthy

                            Well it's mostly Cuz I have adjusted to being able to function on low sleep . But lately I have been cycling which gives me more sleep. One night I play Dota after son and wife go to sleep , next night I go to bed with them early to catch up on sleep then rotate back seems to work pretty well.

                            succuba

                              My BF hates when I play Dota2, so I decided to cheat on him with my GF.

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                              dadmode

                                you know i'm just going to say it, most dota players lead fairly normal social lives. people want to believe in the fat gamer nerd stereotype so much because they like telling themselves they're the only gamer with social skills

                                Filthy

                                  My guess would be if you put 5 Dota players in a room 1 would be a fat nerd, 1 would be a skinny nerd, and 3 others would be pretty normal . No scientific basis on this just making up some shit .

                                  King of Low Prio

                                    only time mine gets pissed is when I go on a dota binge because I blast music and forget to pay attention to my phone :P

                                    Bobbyx Qrwa Mac

                                      Well, i guess it depends on the person, like it can be a simple hobby or something that you put a lot of time in. Mine is just happy that i put a lot of effort and interest into something

                                      Livin' Real Good

                                        Apparently everyone here has a girlfriend, and apparently every one here has more sex than they play Dota. Kappa

                                        Filthy

                                          Na not the more sex part man I mean I prolly average 2 hours Dota a day . Some times you gotta get in finish ur business and get out .

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                                          Arrancar-4

                                            Told my fiance long time ago that she is no.1 and dota no.2 and dota will always be part of my life. This year marks me and Dota's +12 year anniversary. Been a tuff +10 years with many difficult patches between, but we made it through it all together. Cant wait to see what the next years will bring for us.

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                                            SWAG DRAGON

                                              i play dota with my wife...(:
                                              i carry and she supports , same in irl

                                              ф

                                                ^can we swap lives

                                                gf laughs at me when im raging about pinoys, but shes a league player so dota doesnt get brought up much

                                                Dire Wolf

                                                  My wife thinks video games are a stupid waste of time but doesn't know specifically that I play dota vs any other game. She doesn't really get mad that I play cus I only play at night after kid is in bed and she is either sleeping reading or watching tv, but I can tell she'd be happier if I like read a book lol. And if I'm cranky in the morning and say I'm tired she will tell me to stop playing video games and go to bed which she is probably right I should but sometimes u just gotta end it on a win.

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                                                  273

                                                    ARE JUST AN ASSHOLE, EVERYBODY SHOULD KNOW, SO DONT PRETEND TO BE NICEEEE THERES NO PLACE WR U CAN HIDEEEE

                                                    Stop Lickin

                                                      She plays from time to time, but mainly just watches pro games when there's a big tournament on.

                                                      She usually hits console games when I'm on dotes.

                                                      273

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                                                        LMAO WHO CAREAS???? XDDDsdd=sa?=d?

                                                        saving private RTZ

                                                          X6 jealous because he apparently doesnt have a girlfriend nor a life

                                                          273

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                                                            LMAO WHO FUCKING CAREAS??? NICE JOKES DUDE I SE U IN THE FUCK YOUJ

                                                            Mr.FarmAllGame

                                                              my gf like to give me good blowjobs when i play dota

                                                              efextoide

                                                                Yes, she know, also I play with her

                                                                Vaikiss`742.

                                                                  yes my husband does

                                                                  the realm's delight

                                                                    does it matter if i dont have any of those

                                                                    on the other hand my mom does knkow i play yyes kk

                                                                    Filthy

                                                                      LOL back when we were dating when I was a teenager shed reverse me while I was playing. now the best id get if I was playing would be a tease to a reverse and then shed go away leaving me with hard dilemma on whether to abandon ;(. I quit dota for 6 years from age 19-25 if yall wondering why I only in high skill level if I played when I was a teenager.

                                                                      Electabruce420

                                                                        My gf knows that I play and my friends play kinda bit too, but she doesn't really cares, she knows its just a hardcore hobby lol Too bad she can't really afford a gamer PC right now, I guess she would be into games too if she could.

                                                                        Filthy

                                                                          Ah I remember when I was dating my wife wheni was teenager she tried playing Dota with me but they kicked her out of game Almost right away every time shame maybe she coulda got into it lol.

                                                                          HaylingZar

                                                                            Me and my girlfriend used to play it together... Then she left me.

                                                                            Bad Intentions

                                                                              Yo filthy, too bad, she could have been your doto partner, but is she aware of the toxic levels of d game? 😀

                                                                              {|}TNA{|}Black Ninja

                                                                                Holy fuck, who could believe all those kids, that rage in game, and have time to write on forums, have such an amazing social life?
                                                                                Like bussines, wife, career and they are all very very happy in real life, so they spend their time in game and on forums about games cause they have amazing time management skills. I propose if we really want to show something, to put links with our facebook, where we can see how amazing house we have, our incredible car, the gorgeous half soul partner.

                                                                                plz do

                                                                                  ^ wtf, how did u become so cynical? who made u dis upset?

                                                                                  Filthy

                                                                                    Jealousy is real , Tna never let someone else make you feel sad or mad then they own a piece of you.

                                                                                    King of Low Prio

                                                                                      I guess Ill dump my girl and quit my job to make this virgin feel better about his shitty life

                                                                                      King of Low Prio

                                                                                        I sometimes forget you dont get access to a computer when your only career path is moving from the fryer to the burger grill so I guess in your world people cant access this website at work

                                                                                        dadmode

                                                                                          this is a little awkward

                                                                                          dadmode

                                                                                            i saw a girl on tinder who actually had dota 2 as a mutual interest ... swiped that shit the fuck left, fuck that :S

                                                                                            Miku Plays

                                                                                              ^ cus u know she gonna carry u ..

                                                                                              Filthy

                                                                                                Hope this makes tnt happy but thx to u benao yesterday I know how to post images on here now :). http://imgur.com/cOK3Bck http://imgur.com/2YTRnFj http://imgur.com/0R71z6O http://imgur.com/p08ejSz http://imgur.com/LEkzdJq http://imgur.com/KonvetQ http://imgur.com/8qdxfFA http://imgur.com/VUrzMj1 sorry fireplace pic only pic on house on phone and I don't care enough about my old truck to take a picture of it . Wife drives a brand new Chevy Cruz . The pic of me where I look mad I was 20 years old and in boot camp so that explains the face lol. All other pics are when I was 25 I just turned 26 2 months ago.I actaully do have a happy life now btw but I had a very stressful life to get to this point, I only just started having lower stress last October with everything falling into place good so it's not all roses. Important thing to remember is to never give up and that crappy attitude will get you no where. good luck gaming and more importantly strive to become more

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                                                                                                Filthy

                                                                                                  @ bad intentions I don't know if she knows but I am sure she can guess since they kicked her out of every game altho this was like 8 years ago. I don't talk to her about Dota I even try to limit myself on talking about work a lot nowa days since for many years when work was really stressful with all the cuts to military I vented to her a lot. Nowa days I try to let her vent since things going pretty good for me and I pretend to care :0

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