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General DiscussionI have a date tommorrow. Need tips and support. This will be my first...

I have a date tommorrow. Need tips and support. This will be my first time dating a girl. in General Discussion
SIMPLY LEMONADE 1.54L

    Met a girl at a bowling alley 5 days ago and we start texting. She asked me if we can watch the pokemon movie tommorrow. Most of my friends are guys and I'm bad socializing with girls specially when im alone.

    Alpha

      The best way to get along tell her that last line.
      Be true.
      (I assume she is a sensible person)

      MuLLi

        +

        I think she will handle socializing

        Soggy Bottom Boy

          Be yourself, be confident and make her laugh. The fastest way to get her is to make her laugh and feel good around you. Girl's honestly don't give a fuck about your looks, money or muscles. Anybody telling different has no clue at all or is just dating bitches. Girls want to feel secure around you, they want to laugh and they want to feel that you are confident.

          Jacked

            The tactics you use Depends how old you are and how old she is.

            Soggy Bottom Boy

              Sure, if you 40 and she 12 you just pay her father 12 Camels.

              Cheap Laugh Guy

                Wow I gotta go get myself a gf at the bowling alley

                Mungo Time

                  The idea of a first date is to get to know the other person, so a movie isn't ideal.

                  So after the movie, grab something to drink where you two can talk and spend some time together.

                  Key tips for after the movie.
                  1 Let her do most of the talking
                  2 The movie will give you content to talk about initially, so ask her questions like, what pokemon is her favorite, why is it her favorite, if she could be any pokemon which one will she be. Make comments on her choices and poke (lul) some fun at her.
                  3 Use this to engage with her to do or ask other things you want to know.
                  4 Don't talk about other guys or ex boyfriends, as far as you are concerned other guys don't matter since you're the best one she could be with
                  5 Walk the lady to her car if you two have cars, and if the opportunity presents itself go for the kiss. You want her to see you as a boyfriend not a friend.
                  6 Afterwards text her and tell her you had a really great time and you would love to go out with her again
                  7 Don't be needy and don't text her constantly. What you want is her to do most of the texting/ calling (don't friendzone yourself)
                  8 Go to youtube and watch Coach Corey Wayne videos if you don't have confidence
                  9 If you ever find yourself feeling insecure or you don't know what to do, ask yourself "what would james bond do" women love that shit

                  cartel

                    If I were you I'd flex my pokemon knowledge
                    I'm talking size height and foot print and battle cry
                    I'm talking evolutions
                    I'm talking about areas rare pokemon can be found
                    and if she can't keep up she just ain't the one
                    also ask her about pikachu evoultion
                    if she doesn't know then sorry pal she really gotta step up her pokemon game
                    p.s. girls don't exist

                    Orsted

                      watch date a live anime
                      profit!?

                      Coco

                        Some of these advices are ok, but some are way off.
                        Do NOT watch any fucking coaches, street gamers, pickup artists etc., they are always toxic misogynistic assholes who prey on insecure young men (specifically, their parent's credit cards). The only thing women wish for when around these pricks is to be left alone.

                        Also, don't push the Pokémon thing too far, discussing the plot or the scenes is fine, but srsly nobody wants to talk about that nerd shit for two hours.

                        Forget anything about "friendzone", it's a made up incel-ish concept that serves to steer attention from the fact that some people have nothing to offer except for the bare social minimum of being "nice" and "friendly" (which, as it ironically often turns out, isn't even the case).

                        GL

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                        varjager

                          I wouldnt either watch a movie on a first date if its not at home ofcourse.. a coffee is fine, if you click then you go home and watch a movie..
                          I would much rather just take a stroll through a shoppingcenter and just hang out rather than go to the cinema. Its actually nice to just talk and be casual and laidback, a coffee is fine in that regard, its cheap its nice and none of you is stuck there for a long time if it crash and burns.

                          I love coffee!

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                          SIMPLY LEMONADE 1.54L

                            Is it a good idea if i bring my 8 yr old sister with us?

                            varjager

                              Dont bring your kid sister on a date...

                              fx

                                If you are forced to bring your sister ask your date if she got any younger siblings so you can shoo them away if necessary

                                A

                                  Just be yourself man. Most of the time if you try trick on the internet, your girl won't see your true self and you don't want that

                                  Jacked

                                    Don’t just be yourself if you’re autistic. Flirting takes skills. Ignore this if you’re Super good looking.

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                                    Feachairu

                                      wtf lmao dont bring anyone just two of you lol

                                      do you know what she likes? like food etc or some activity
                                      after watching the movie you can go somewhere or stuff

                                      when watching the movie,dun talk on the movie theatre too much i guess and try to watch it so you actually has a topic to talk to at the end of the movie
                                      when you talk,just think like she's your guy friends but you dun do any retarded shit jokes or something lmao

                                      cartel

                                        DONT BRING ANYONE
                                        ONLY BRING KATANA COLLECTION AND POKEMON TRADING CARDS HELLO?????

                                        Feachairu

                                          heh fking weebs

                                          cartel

                                            @ op I'm joking
                                            pls don't bring your katana collection or share your pokemon knowledge ty
                                            It'll be fiiiiiiiiiiiiine
                                            It's not a puzzle or an equation with formulas
                                            you don't need to follow steps or guides lmao
                                            not all girls are the same honey what works with one doesn't work with the other
                                            try to understand her first
                                            P.S. I know it's hard to resist but try not to lick people's thighs when walking with her it doesn't work out well
                                            P.S. someone pls help I'm running low on thighs

                                            Rocket

                                              Just be yourself. Don’t try and be something you’re not. If you ignore this time-honored advice the two outcomes are I) you get laid and have to continue pretending until it makes you both miserable or II) you come across as a fake nob.

                                              Much better to be yourself and give yourself the chance to meet a soulmate rather than wasting six months just cos she is acceptably pretty with all the right holes.

                                              Mungo Time

                                                @Coco

                                                It's ignorant to completely disregard the possibility of someone else being able to give something of value or knowledge that you otherwise didn't possess. You can't put all people in the same bracket, that's like saying everyone in eu west is toxic.

                                                You can't put psychology into the same bracket as pickup artists. But if you don't understand psychology then you'll think it's the same

                                                The "friendzone" is just a term that's used to explain why a man failed to make a woman 'feel' like you're not a man she wants to be with.

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                                                cartel

                                                  everyone in eu west is toxic

                                                  Tribo

                                                    Ask her to open bobo n vagene

                                                    MuLLi

                                                      pretty with all the right holes.

                                                      lol

                                                      MuLLi

                                                        If u like her after date ask her to coffee etc for next day. Don't try to much at first date. Just relax and hangout with she

                                                        Hand in hand is easier first step than kiss

                                                        MuLLi

                                                          Ultimately u want this and she want same

                                                          fill all the right holes.

                                                          cartel

                                                            speaking of the right holes
                                                            make sure she doesn't have a bulge
                                                            or if she does make sure the bulge isn't bigger than yours
                                                            unless you're into that

                                                            Ramtin H

                                                              begin your self and not filming it
                                                              begin chill
                                                              not acting cringey or like a whiteknight
                                                              And also how old are you bro
                                                              also if you want more information theres a game called super seducer on steam I am sure you can watch all of its episodes on youtube and dependet on what she is to you or where you are meeting this might be helpfull to you.

                                                              varjager

                                                                The "friendzone" is just a term that's used to explain why a man failed to make a woman 'feel' like you're not a man she wants to be with.

                                                                Friendzone is when a guy befriends a female coworker/classmate he is interested in hope she will come around even though she never actually expressed any romantic signals/feeling towards him except just being normal friendly.

                                                                That for you is the friendzone, sometimes though, the female can be a bit careless and naive luring the poor guy into believing shes interested, but that usually after they become friends.

                                                                DSP

                                                                  @parma OP needs your advice

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                                                                  Tribo

                                                                    G spot in less than 30 seconds
                                                                    Try me

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                                                                    Eddie

                                                                      Delete dota

                                                                      Väinämöinen

                                                                        if she invites you to watch a pokemon movie you are either way too young to date or you are going to get some serious kinky action

                                                                        Väinämöinen

                                                                          ''made it with a girl in a snorlax costume''-OP tomorrow

                                                                          Leukemia

                                                                            dont overthink it, and dont try to over-impress. It the first date, just go and chill, try enjoying the movie and relax.

                                                                            MuLLi

                                                                              ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

                                                                              Vertoxity

                                                                                I can't believe that you actually coinsidered to bring your 8 year old sister to a damn date.

                                                                                one syllable anglo-saxon

                                                                                  just be yourself and everything will be fine

                                                                                  one syllable anglo-saxon

                                                                                    unless, of course, you're one of the following:
                                                                                    - ugly
                                                                                    - racist
                                                                                    - mysogynostic
                                                                                    - voted for trump
                                                                                    - voted for clinton
                                                                                    - black
                                                                                    - have a lazy eye and you're not thom yorke
                                                                                    - have a mommy fetish
                                                                                    - transphobic
                                                                                    - hate your parents
                                                                                    - don't shower
                                                                                    - still live with your parents
                                                                                    - poor
                                                                                    - have smelly feet
                                                                                    - a libtard

                                                                                    then you're gonna crash and burn

                                                                                    MuLLi

                                                                                      I think OP still lives at parents and are pretty young!=?

                                                                                      So he needs tips for 13-17Y old dating

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                                                                                      Lucyfer

                                                                                        dafaq these weebs swarming every website i visit

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                                                                                        Aimstrong

                                                                                          ^sorry

                                                                                          Cygnis

                                                                                            DENY HER

                                                                                            flourishing new leaf

                                                                                              She invited you so things are looking good. Just keep being yourself and imo try to kiss her later and stuff. Or she might not feel you're interested enough and you'll just get dumped/ghosted.

                                                                                              SIMPLY LEMONADE 1.54L

                                                                                                I think I did fine. Just waiting for her text. I think that is a good indicator if she's still interested at me. She's so nice, easy going that I feel comfortable around her, which made me act natural. Maybe girls are not that scary. Right now, I'm just trying to stop overhinking things.

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                                                                                                MASTER HOO.LEE.FOOK

                                                                                                  mag paka totoo ka boi .. wag kang tanga .. that's it !

                                                                                                  Feachairu

                                                                                                    bobo chika blyat soy sauce putangina bngst gago anjing dit me may cao ni ma ketchup mustard chili davai cyka

                                                                                                    lmao nice

                                                                                                    MuLLi

                                                                                                      Kullisuuhunjahiljaa

                                                                                                      Araoki

                                                                                                        Oi oi oi