I would quit if only I was able to accept the fact that I wasted 6k hours of my life on this trash, and money too. Not a lot at all, but still something since I'm not a billionaire. I put so much effort into this 'cause it used to be one of my passions. I'll give you the time to laugh, but I wanted to improve so that I could be able to coach <5k people. Nothing serious of course, but just because I really liked this game.
@RPQ-sama I got tons of abandons due to poor connection, that's how it started. So I ended up being mad at that trash connection I'm still paying for, at my flatmates who don't want to change provider, at Dota, at everything. Game after game the envoiroment became more and more toxic and I became exactly like the people I blame, except I'm not toxic 'cause I wanna lose or ruin people's games on purpose. I know I became a part of the problem, but it wasn't my intention to do so and I'm trying to stop being toxic, but I don't know how to stand all this negativity.
People say mute chat is a good way, pretty boring to sit in silence for ~40min though. Everytime your teammate does something stupid that makes you rage, immediately stfu, calm down, if needed sit afk for few sec to clear your minds, and do this every time someone does something retarded. I started doing that and now i barely get mad in my games. Start rising your bhs by saying "all commended" after every game, you have to be friendly, don't ever say stupid shit to your team or something you think will make them report you. After some time you might get normal bhs and play with almost no difference shitstains, good game.
I muted everyone for a while, but then realized that if no one with a bit of game sense tells people what is best to do they won't have the mental capacity to understand what's the right move. I gave my recent games as examples, I told people to push when we had no late game, they didn't and we lost the games. Imagine what would happen if I didn't even try to communicate. I'm trash at farming, but the most important thing that allowed me to climb and that makes me say "this is not the skill level I deserve" is exactly this: game sense. If I muted everyone I'd basically counter myself lol. Anyway I'll try to mute the toxic player at least and afk for a bit to untilt during games, it's the last chance I'm giving to myself and this game. Good game to you too and gl with that AM.
@MATCHMAKING IS SO FUCKING...,, i got you bra. what you said in your last post makes sense, i've a long experience in dota same as your probably more. i used to know many poeple at the position you are already , many of them quited dota , theyr never returned anymore. and yeah mostly of them were like they not "bad guys " or toxic by default, but i can aprove sometimes it starts with ...
A bad connection , or a bad day , a couple abbandons , and than it add's up eventually. especially cause people did not know that abbandons or report would effect they "matchmaking" for theyr entire life.
I happened to a friend of mine which quited after that. he was always nice and a good teammate to play with , not the best player he was about 3k mmr, had alot to learn was not that experienced as yo uare in dota. he never ( rly rly rare cases ) flamed. and his bs was constantly high( we was not aware of it, me neither ) . did; not eeven know that bs exist at all. what happened to him was having some ps problems, his graphic card was not working well, and his pc shut down while in game many times , he keep playing like that in about a week, with a lot of abbandons. after that he fixed he pc, but waht happened , when he started playing again, his team mates where completely different from waht he was used too. they were to toxic , and constantly flaming he " adopted" to negativity , yeah its in human nature , and flamed back.
that was the momment when he was ... FUCKED UP . it never stops ,cause tou dont know why it is happening in the first place. he thinks that is just being unlucky at it will pass, but it never did, he tilt so much , and gave on dota , he completely quit.
i was witness of waht happened to him , and this and some other small experiences i had from my friends and including mines was what inspired me to make some researches about " system matchmaking"".
this is how i discovered about bs system and his importance in matchmaking.
about you my friend you can still do it , your efforts and passion might not be wasted, you just need to understand that this is the realitu where you are and you can deal with it. you can deal with the negativity if you stop being negative yourself. dont ever flame anyone ever, even if they are completely retarded or even if they constantly flame you. ignore them pretend your playing with some bots , if they do stupid shit ,well what can you do it is just " stupid bot" .
Learn to admit defeat , and that you cant control things that are no under you control , at every game that is unwinable cause of your " retarded team". jsut admit it , and enjoy the game and try to learn something about it , improve if there is anything to improve at that exact game, it still might not cause yo uwining that , but even on those games when you " tilt " and you see no hope of wining , if you remain calm and keep playing normally you will win at least 20-30% of them . while when your tilting you only increase the chances for you to loose those games, not only cause you will play bad for yourself, but you make even your team play even worst that it is.
figure out what makes you tilt and flame more, and get control over it. eventually your games will be better , not in instant , you need to work for it, but eventually it will.
You can start by changing your name at first place, and stop replying once and for all to those ignorant kids here in dottabuf. trust me.
This is why i have chosen AM. I was getting teammates who can't push, farm or do anything useful. So i thought, ok i need a hero that can split push, that can 1v9. People suggested to play am and improve farming, so i choose am and currently have 80% winrate with it.
Nope, doesn't work. Had an autistic SD who's name is "toxic and rude" when he's just fucking dogshit, a WR flaming all game long, a Tiny complaining all game long and doing the same mistakes over and over and the only normal one was Troll, who went MASK OF MADNESS. Hopeless, and now I'm flat 4k when I see fucking idiots with half my skills get 5k. Normal games afk jungling, that's all I need. Then I'll have a normal bhs and my ass carried effortlessly. This is the spirit, fuck improving, fuck everything.
Yeah AM seems a good idea to compensate for the lack of brains these dumbshits have, problem is everyone wants to play core and he needs good supporting early game. I'll stick to the afk jungle idea 'till I'll be seen as a good girl since apparently this is all Volvo gives a fuck about and people will do the job for me. Will reach 11k by not improving but just spamming "well played! I love you all! <3". I'm starting to have the suspect Volvo gave a lot of importance to behavior 'cause prolly they're losing customers and players and a toxic and competitive enviroiment doesn't make newbies want to keep playing and spending money on this shit. It's getting too suspicious and ridiculous that everything comes down to how many times you say thank you on a fucking skill-based game.
@Bart Bot thanks man I will try, but only in normal games 'cause being flat 4k again already makes me wanna switch to Minecraft.
yeah you need to play unranked until you improve your bs, dont do the afk junling thing tho, you might get reported for that even in unranked lul. jsut play normally keep your mouth shout , dont type at all you dont have to say " ty , or nice , to try make your team fell good if you dont feel doing that. jsut be passive in comunication since it looks that it is not your strong point.
@StanceWorks33 exactly, I mean it's Dota and a player has to focus on behaving more than on improving. It's just insane. Having manners is the basic thing when one is in a group of people, but the fact that this counts MORE than anything... I don't know, I'm speechless. New account? And lose my untradable SF set I bought with my money? Oh hell no man :'
I have a D+ (with a frownie face). I used to have something ~2k. I have 1629 commends, 1118 wins, and 2213 matches. That means 3/4 games I play, I get commended. Yet my behavior score sucks. I do abandon on occasion. When I started I abandoned before I knew about low priority. Ever since, I get some really bad teammates. Not poorly playng - that's not what tilts me. It's people that flame and dive head first. So occasionally I say you know what - i'll take my free abandon this week to not have to sit through it. Now in order to brinng myself to 1% leaves, I'd have to play 6600 more games without an abandon. So I'll be here forever, basically. I have no incentive to change my ways.
I would quit if only I was able to accept the fact that I wasted 6k hours of my life on this trash, and money too. Not a lot at all, but still something since I'm not a billionaire. I put so much effort into this 'cause it used to be one of my passions. I'll give you the time to laugh, but I wanted to improve so that I could be able to coach <5k people. Nothing serious of course, but just because I really liked this game.
@RPQ-sama I got tons of abandons due to poor connection, that's how it started. So I ended up being mad at that trash connection I'm still paying for, at my flatmates who don't want to change provider, at Dota, at everything. Game after game the envoiroment became more and more toxic and I became exactly like the people I blame, except I'm not toxic 'cause I wanna lose or ruin people's games on purpose. I know I became a part of the problem, but it wasn't my intention to do so and I'm trying to stop being toxic, but I don't know how to stand all this negativity.
People say mute chat is a good way, pretty boring to sit in silence for ~40min though. Everytime your teammate does something stupid that makes you rage, immediately stfu, calm down, if needed sit afk for few sec to clear your minds, and do this every time someone does something retarded. I started doing that and now i barely get mad in my games. Start rising your bhs by saying "all commended" after every game, you have to be friendly, don't ever say stupid shit to your team or something you think will make them report you. After some time you might get normal bhs and play with almost no difference shitstains, good game.
I muted everyone for a while, but then realized that if no one with a bit of game sense tells people what is best to do they won't have the mental capacity to understand what's the right move. I gave my recent games as examples, I told people to push when we had no late game, they didn't and we lost the games. Imagine what would happen if I didn't even try to communicate. I'm trash at farming, but the most important thing that allowed me to climb and that makes me say "this is not the skill level I deserve" is exactly this: game sense. If I muted everyone I'd basically counter myself lol. Anyway I'll try to mute the toxic player at least and afk for a bit to untilt during games, it's the last chance I'm giving to myself and this game. Good game to you too and gl with that AM.
@MATCHMAKING IS SO FUCKING...,, i got you bra. what you said in your last post makes sense, i've a long experience in dota same as your probably more. i used to know many poeple at the position you are already , many of them quited dota , theyr never returned anymore. and yeah mostly of them were like they not "bad guys " or toxic by default, but i can aprove sometimes it starts with ...
A bad connection , or a bad day , a couple abbandons , and than it add's up eventually. especially cause people did not know that abbandons or report would effect they "matchmaking" for theyr entire life.
I happened to a friend of mine which quited after that. he was always nice and a good teammate to play with , not the best player he was about 3k mmr, had alot to learn was not that experienced as yo uare in dota. he never ( rly rly rare cases ) flamed. and his bs was constantly high( we was not aware of it, me neither ) . did; not eeven know that bs exist at all. what happened to him was having some ps problems, his graphic card was not working well, and his pc shut down while in game many times , he keep playing like that in about a week, with a lot of abbandons. after that he fixed he pc, but waht happened , when he started playing again, his team mates where completely different from waht he was used too. they were to toxic , and constantly flaming he " adopted" to negativity , yeah its in human nature , and flamed back.
that was the momment when he was ... FUCKED UP . it never stops ,cause tou dont know why it is happening in the first place. he thinks that is just being unlucky at it will pass, but it never did, he tilt so much , and gave on dota , he completely quit.
i was witness of waht happened to him , and this and some other small experiences i had from my friends and including mines was what inspired me to make some researches about " system matchmaking"".
this is how i discovered about bs system and his importance in matchmaking.
about you my friend you can still do it , your efforts and passion might not be wasted, you just need to understand that this is the realitu where you are and you can deal with it. you can deal with the negativity if you stop being negative yourself. dont ever flame anyone ever, even if they are completely retarded or even if they constantly flame you. ignore them pretend your playing with some bots , if they do stupid shit ,well what can you do it is just " stupid bot" .
Learn to admit defeat , and that you cant control things that are no under you control , at every game that is unwinable cause of your " retarded team". jsut admit it , and enjoy the game and try to learn something about it , improve if there is anything to improve at that exact game, it still might not cause yo uwining that , but even on those games when you " tilt " and you see no hope of wining , if you remain calm and keep playing normally you will win at least 20-30% of them . while when your tilting you only increase the chances for you to loose those games, not only cause you will play bad for yourself, but you make even your team play even worst that it is.
figure out what makes you tilt and flame more, and get control over it. eventually your games will be better , not in instant , you need to work for it, but eventually it will.
You can start by changing your name at first place, and stop replying once and for all to those ignorant kids here in dottabuf. trust me.
This is why i have chosen AM. I was getting teammates who can't push, farm or do anything useful. So i thought, ok i need a hero that can split push, that can 1v9. People suggested to play am and improve farming, so i choose am and currently have 80% winrate with it.
Nope, doesn't work. Had an autistic SD who's name is "toxic and rude" when he's just fucking dogshit, a WR flaming all game long, a Tiny complaining all game long and doing the same mistakes over and over and the only normal one was Troll, who went MASK OF MADNESS. Hopeless, and now I'm flat 4k when I see fucking idiots with half my skills get 5k. Normal games afk jungling, that's all I need. Then I'll have a normal bhs and my ass carried effortlessly. This is the spirit, fuck improving, fuck everything.
Yeah AM seems a good idea to compensate for the lack of brains these dumbshits have, problem is everyone wants to play core and he needs good supporting early game. I'll stick to the afk jungle idea 'till I'll be seen as a good girl since apparently this is all Volvo gives a fuck about and people will do the job for me. Will reach 11k by not improving but just spamming "well played! I love you all! <3". I'm starting to have the suspect Volvo gave a lot of importance to behavior 'cause prolly they're losing customers and players and a toxic and competitive enviroiment doesn't make newbies want to keep playing and spending money on this shit. It's getting too suspicious and ridiculous that everything comes down to how many times you say thank you on a fucking skill-based game.
@Bart Bot thanks man I will try, but only in normal games 'cause being flat 4k again already makes me wanna switch to Minecraft.
yeah you need to play unranked until you improve your bs, dont do the afk junling thing tho, you might get reported for that even in unranked lul. jsut play normally keep your mouth shout , dont type at all you dont have to say " ty , or nice , to try make your team fell good if you dont feel doing that. jsut be passive in comunication since it looks that it is not your strong point.
@Bart Bot Eh no, it definitely isn't lol.
@StanceWorks33 exactly, I mean it's Dota and a player has to focus on behaving more than on improving. It's just insane. Having manners is the basic thing when one is in a group of people, but the fact that this counts MORE than anything... I don't know, I'm speechless. New account? And lose my untradable SF set I bought with my money? Oh hell no man :'
I have a D+ (with a frownie face). I used to have something ~2k. I have 1629 commends, 1118 wins, and 2213 matches. That means 3/4 games I play, I get commended. Yet my behavior score sucks. I do abandon on occasion. When I started I abandoned before I knew about low priority. Ever since, I get some really bad teammates. Not poorly playng - that's not what tilts me. It's people that flame and dive head first. So occasionally I say you know what - i'll take my free abandon this week to not have to sit through it. Now in order to brinng myself to 1% leaves, I'd have to play 6600 more games without an abandon. So I'll be here forever, basically. I have no incentive to change my ways.
^this is exactly how I get to LPQ and F behaviour score every time
it is never reports, I get a shitton of commends but I abandon so I am graded F, just like the "double mid" people, ragers, spawn feeders etc